Calling Abusers' Bluff: Part Two

I have known many people who saw people closest to them as bad people and out of that attitude did what they could to abuse these people.

I have to say this. This is a stupid way to live.

If your partner really is a bad person, then by all means leave her. But what we see in these situations is a game. The perpetrator gets all sorts of things out of his relationship with the partner. And instead of rewarding the partner according to what he has been getting her, he instead uses the belief that she is a bad person to treat her like crap.

In essence, he commits a theft. And thieves have no business claiming morality. Once again, he gets a lot out of the relationship. And instead of rewarding the partner for what he is getting from her, he is treating her like rubbish.

I want to see more people see through things of that nature. What we are seeing here is a con. If the partner really was a bad person, then he couldn't wait to leave her. But these men not only stay in the relationships but also do whatever they can to keep the partner from leaving. This is beyond hypocrisy.

So it is time that these people have called their bluff. Once again, if their partner really was a bad person, then they couldn't wait to leave her. And until they do, they are obligated to treat the partner according to what they are getting out of the relationship.

And it is time that more people who are vulnerable to such things arm themselves with these arguments so that they don't be conned and victimized any more.