Saturday, July 04, 2015
Sigmund Freud made a
wrong analysis, and on it he built several other wrong analyses. He
misinterpreted the memories of childhood sexual abuse for erotic
fantasy. On this he built three wrong analyses that have had a
horrible effect on the Western civilization: That children are
sexual; that women are an incomplete gender possessing a penis envy;
and that children are in love with the parent of the opposite gender
and that love in adulthood is transference of that love.
As a parent, I would
know if my daughter was sexual. She isn't. Children are curious, and
their curiosity would be especially intense about things that are
forbidden, such as sexuality. The claim that children are sexual has
encouraged the very real wrong of pedophilia. If they think that the
children are sexual, they may delude themselves into thinking that
having sex with a child is OK. It is not OK; it is rightfully a
crime.
Freud's claim about
women was nothing but a generalization of the conditions in his time.
In early 20th century Europe, the men had all the rights
and powers, and the women were sufficiently schooled in the ideals of
liberty and equality to want the rights and the powers that men had.
We do not see women envying men in places such as Sweden, where women
have the same rights and powers as the men. Nor do we see women
envying men in the Middle East, where women accept the subservient
position as part of their religion.
As to Freud's most
famous claim: There is absolutely nothing wrong with children loving
their parents. Children should love their parents, and parents should
love their children. That doesn't mean that either party is sexually
attracted to the other. I love my mother, but I am not sexually
attracted to her. My daughter loves me, but she is not sexually
attracted to me either.
Regarding love in
adulthood, Freud's claim does not begin to pass the muster of
reality. If love in adulthood had been a transference from a parent,
then women raised by single mothers, men raised by single fathers,
homosexuals raised by a single parent of the opposite gender, or
orphans who were raised without either parent, would not fall in love
in adulthood; and of course they do. At the time of Sigmund Freud,
there were few single-parent households and fewer open homosexuals to
study; now there are plenty of them. And what we have seen again and
again is people from all kinds of backgrounds falling in love,
including the backgrounds that do not have a transference figure.
Clearly Freud was a
major thinker, and he should be commended for his intelligence, his
courage and his willingness to work hard. But these errors have to
go. It would be better for everyone if these errors had not been
made. But now that they have been made, it falls up to us to correct
them.
2 Comments:
Hi Ilya,
long time no see.
I see you moved to Australia.
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Mayer Landau
Mayer, great to hear from you. Send me your email address.
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