Friday, July 08, 2016
According to recent research, the
biggest causes of family violence are not, as used to be believed,
psychological or economic, but rather ideological. The biggest
predictor of family violence has been found to be violence-supporting
beliefs. This means that the best thing one can do to fight family
violence is to deconstruct these beliefs and replace them with better
ones.
Most family violence takes place in
socially conservative communities; which means that to fight domestic
violence effectively it will be necessary to deconstruct the
violence-supporting beliefs that have found their way into
conservatism. And this has to be done using the logic of conservatism
itself.
Now conservatives do not believe in
feminism, gender equality, human rights or non-violence. Many also
reject psychology and sociology altogether. However there are
conservative values to which it would be possible to appeal to get
them to stop being violent toward their wives.
One of these values is character.
Conservatives talk a lot about character, although not all of them
show it. A part of character is self-control and discretion. A man
who beats his wife exercises neither self-control nor discretion.
Which means that, according to the logic of conservatism itself, he
fails.
Another of these values is “family
values.” I can think of no more important family value than being
good to one's wife and children. A person who truly speaks in favor
of family will demand of the man treating his family well; and that
means, first and foremost, doing away with domestic violence.
Still another conservative value is
responsibility. The man bears full responsibility for what he does
with his fists and his mouth. A man who beats up on his wife and
children fails to exercise responsibility; which means that, once
again, according to logic of conservatism itself, he fails.
Right now, the bulk of the fight
against domestic violence has come from people on the Left. It should
involve people on the Right as well. Character, family values and
responsibility demand good treatment of one's family. Which means
that this should be a conservative cause as much as it is a liberal
one, and it should become a part of the conservative agenda.
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