Monday, December 11, 2017
For a long time we have been hearing
that some people – such as sociopaths and “perverts” - are
incurably evil. This is a completely wrong thing to believe.
There may not be a cure for sexual
perversions, but there is a cure for acting on sexual perversions. It
is called self-control. There may not be a cure for sociopaths, but
there is a cure for acting on sociopathic tendencies. It is called
having a moral compass. The people who claim that these people are
evil and can only be evil reduces people to being animals. The
correct solution is not to listen to such people, but to exercise the
human capacity for moral choice.
If someone is acting in a selfish or
unethical way, it does not necessarily mean that he is a sociopath.
Some of such people are simply lost. They do not have a moral
compass. The moral compass is provided by accepting the Ten
Commandments and the teachings of Jesus Christ.
Doing this restores people again to the
status of being people. Whereas we see many in psychology doing the
opposite. Once again, they have decided that some people are bad and
can only be bad whatever they do. This is irrational, this is cruel
and this is wrong.
Into this fascist nightmare comes in
the wisdom of God. He restores people to humanity and teaches them
the rightful way to conduct themselves. At this point even the people
with the worst natures learn to act rightfully and use their moral
choice to overpower whatever is wrong with their natures.
Character, in my experience, makes one
attractive to many more people. And rightfully so. A person with
character will be much more likely to behave rightfully than a person
without character. The solution is to build character; and, in my
experience, the way to do so is to invite into one's life the being
that had the best character of anyone known in history, who, even
though He could do anything that He wanted, decided to sacrifice
Himself on the cross.
Very little of merit on this matter can
be learned from the man-haters. Very little of merit on this matter
can be learned from predatory psychologists. But everything stands to
be learned on this matter from beings that actually know what
character is. If you have those kinds of propensities it does not
mean that you are damned for life. It means that you need to figure
out ethics and apply it. And that is something of which anyone,
including the sociopaths, are capable.
This matter has been approached in a
completely wrong way. It ignores the central reality of human
existence – deliberate choice based on principle. We are not
animals. If we have wrong propensities, it does not mean that we will
always act on them. We can stop ourselves when we find ourselves
tempted to do wrong things. And it is in encouraging this, and not
self-esteem or anything of the sort, that we stand to become good
people.
So it is time to do away with these
grievous errors. The solution to these problems is moral
self-restraint. The solution is giving people a correct moral
compass. And then they will act rightfully whatever their nature or
their psychology or their brain chemistry happens to be.
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