Friday, August 11, 2017
One metaphor that we see all sorts of
people currently use is the one between the rabbits and the
tortoises. The rabbit is faster than the tortoise; but the tortoise
outdoes the rabbit through deliberate committed effort.
I am reminded of the Brazilian soccer
team. For a long time the Brazilian soccer team had the flair but not
the discipline. They would play scintillating soccer; but they would
lose. So then they had a coach who corrected that state of affairs.
Under him, the Brazilian soccer team would play boring soccer; but
they would win.
In the last two world cups they had
neither the flair nor the discipline, and they played boring soccer
and went down in flaming defeat.
There are implications for this in all
sorts of things that are more important than soccer.
For a long time, when faced with men's
success at achieving economic and political power, women decided that
they were going to copy men. In the process they denied what they
were as women. And this allowed some of them to get political and
economic power even as they militated against the qualities in women
that are superior to those of men.
My mother had a sign on her
refrigerator that said that “women who want to be equal with men
lack ambition.” She achieved significant success in computer
industry, but she remained very much a woman through all this
situation. She is very beautiful, very compassionate and very kind.
People like her have a lot to teach feminists.
And no, I do not lust after her.
When faced with the success of a
different or a hostile social group, it is valid to see what they
have done in order to achieve this success. It is in no way valid to
deny what you are in the process. If tortoises win through a
determined effort, then it is valid to learn from them the habits of
the determined effort. It is not valid to deny as a process what you
are as a rabbit.
The women who want to be copy to bad
men may in fact achieve professional success, but they will not be
happy as a result. They will only be happy if they learn from the men
what they have to learn from the men while remaining women in the
process. Right now, in America at least, we are seeing women from
places such as Slovenia achieving great success and great influence.
They have every right to this success and they have the right to this
influence. They are women who have learned what they had to learn
from men while themselves remaining women.
This confusion therefore stands to be
solved through correct learning of historical lessons. There are men
who have learned to be effective in one way or another, and there are
women who have learned to be effective by learning one thing or
another that has been appropriaxed by men. Joan of Arc achieved great
success – and respect for the women in her own country – by
beating men at their own game. She did not do so by becoming mean or
ignorant in the process.
I have every interest in seeing women
advance in society. That stands to benefit women such as my mother
and my daughter. I however have no interest in seeing women become an
inferior imitation of bad men. If I wanted another man, I would be a
homosexual. Whereas I have interest interest in seeing women who are
genuinely good people advance.
Are turtoises capable of advancing? Of
course they are capable of advancing. But that does not mean that
rabbits have to adopt the worst course fallicies of turtoises in
order to advance as well. Learn from the tortoises what you have to
learn, while yourself remaining rabbits. And then you will achieve a
success that is owed to rabbits regardless of what turtoises around
you happen to do.
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